Popular media personality Tolu “Toolz” Oniru-Demuren has once again voiced her opposition to polygamy, citing the emotional challenges often associated with such family arrangements.
The mother of two, who has previously spoken about growing up in a polygamous home, shared her stance after reacting to a viral post on X detailing the struggles of a woman in a polygamous marriage.
The post, shared by X user Sadeeyaeh, recounted how her 55-year-old aunt was overwhelmed by jealousy and anger after her husband reportedly left home to spend time with his second wife.
Responding to a screenshot of the story, Toolz did not mince words, writing: “Will forever be against polygamy.”
Her comment quickly sparked conversations online, with many users weighing in on the realities of polygamous unions and their impact on family dynamics.
Toolz has been vocal about her reservations regarding polygamy in the past. In an earlier discussion, she argued that children raised in polygamous households often face emotional and psychological challenges, maintaining that such family structures rarely produce children who emerge entirely unaffected by the complexities and rivalries that can exist within them.
Her latest remarks have reignited debate on social media, with supporters agreeing that polygamy can breed competition, resentment, and emotional strain among spouses. In contrast, others defended the practice, insisting that successful polygamous families do exist when managed with fairness and mutual understanding.
The discussion continues to generate reactions, highlighting the differing views surrounding a practice that remains part of many cultures and traditions across Africa and beyond.
